Reformat Your Male’s Ego…

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Reformat Your Male’s Ego…I very rarely write much about my personal life here, but I’ll open the window a little to let you know more about how I rule my man.I am an Eastern European woman happily married to a western man for the past couple years and it is the second marriage for both of us. In that time I have completely take over his life, and have him actively building a hospitality business that I am the sole owner of. He lives in my house, under my rules, and lives to please me.How have I created this wonderful situation? I rule him completely, even while allowing him moments of rebellion which I soon overwhelm with will power and feminine wiles. Here are some of the methods I’ve used so that you too can live a life of ease with a hardworking and loving male who lives for your pleasure and happiness.Self-esteemI’ve established in the past that an egoistically high self-esteem in a man is as attractive to women as a third nipple. All else being equal, any woman with a desire for a better life will choose an insecure man who lives to please her over a selfishly independent man every time. But because of all the he-man propaganda encouraging men to behave like pigs, few if any men can admit their desire to submit to the whims of a woman.How do you smash through the veneer of confidence that men possess?Merely banging a man isn’t enough for a man: you need to possess his very being to be satisfied. All men have an innate desire to sign themselves over to a woman’s dominion, and if you know how to play his emotions, you can be that woman. If you’re in a relationship with a man, this is how you can crush his self-image and own him mind, body and soul.1. Constantly make him feel inadequate.You should rarely give him unqualified praise. Every time he does something for you, find out what he did wrong and remind him of it. If you can’t find any problems, make some up. For example, if he makes a nice rice stir fry for you, point out that he burned the vegetables just a little too much or didn’t let the rice cook quite long enough. If you’re worried about him getting fat, make an innocuous comment about how he’s getting “hefty” or “big.”Nothing he does can ever be good enough for you.When you’re chastising him, it’s paramount that you DO NOT sound angry or whiny. If you insult or complain to him, you’ll provoke a defensive reaction and he WILL resist you. Instead, you should always sound calm and collected, like you’re talking about the weather. Denigrating him in a neutral-but-firm fashion will trip his submissiveness circuitry, making him think about how he can better serve you. And every time he reaches the goalposts, you move them, forcing him to play an eternal game of catch-up.This technique works even better if you can identify your man’s Achilles’ heel and hammer away at canlı bahis it. For example, my man was a former fat man who had slimmed down a bit just prior to me meeting him, giving him a massive complex about gaining weight. One day, we were out for lunch when this happened:BF: I think I’m gonna have the hamburger and fries.Me: You sure about that? I think you’re getting a little thick around the middle again.(pokes BF in the tummy.)BF (angry): DON’T DO THAT!Me: Well, at least you’ll be warm in the winter.End result: He ordered a salad and a glass of water. Fat shaming works!Additionally, you should criticize your man for everything, no matter how minor. Think of applying the “broken windows” theory of crime to managing your man. The concept is that if you criticize men for minor mistakes, they’ll be less likely to commit major ones, as their mental energy is expended on dealing with your every complaint. For example, if you constantly critique the way he dresses, you won’t be arguing with him over whether he should get a tattoo to express his “individuality.”Take this idea and run with it. Every time you find fault with your man — even if it’s something you really don’t care about — hammer him on it. If he doesn’t reply to your texts quickly enough, chastise him. If he doesn’t make dinner the exact way you like it, chastise him. Hold him to a high standard and keep pushing it higher, ensuring he can never meet it… though it won’t stop him from trying.2. Dominate him physically and sexually.Repeatedly violate his boundaries in small, petty ways, small enough that he’ll feel petty for complaining to you. For example, if you’re into anal sex and he’s not thrilled about it, the next time you give him a massage for a reward, stick your finger into his asshole. If he doesn’t like behind humiliated, when you orgasm while riding him, climb onto his face when you cum. Lightly clasp your hand around his throat during sex like you’re going to choke him. (Do not actually choke him too much. That can be dangerous.) Smack him on the behind when you’re out in public. The possibilities are endless.The message you want to send him is simple; it’s not his body anymore.Most men want you to dominate them anyway, but the rationalisation hamster and their conscious minds prevent them from articulating this desire. This is the broken windows theory at play: if he lets you get away with minor violations of his boundaries, he’ll accede to your bigger demands later on, letting you mould him into the perfect plaything. If he doesn’t violently resist getting his anus fingered, a little more pressure and you’ll be full-on sodomising him with your strap-on, grinning as he whimpers between each thrust. Never ask him for anything, because asking is begging, and begging is contemptible.3. Isolate him from his bahis siteleri friends and family.You need to be the primary emotional influence in him life, and you can’t do that if he’s leaning on anyone else for support. Gradually wean him from contact with anyone other than you. The easiest way to do this is to get to know his friends and family, scan them for character flaws, and then plant seeds of doubt in him mind. For example, if his father is divorced:“Man, it’s sad that your parents aren’t still together. Do you think misery loves company?”Or if he has a friend who is known for being unable to maintain a relationship:“Mike’s gone through three girlfriends in the past year. You think he’ll ever find a woman?”Like with point one, you want to frame your comments in a firm-but-neutral manner. If he suspects you’re attacking his loved ones, he will instinctively side with them. You want him to sever ties with them of his own volition by making him think that his friends and family are untrustworthy and trying to sabotage his chances at happiness… with you!On this same token, you should limit his use of Facebook and other social media if possible, as well as limit the amount of time he spends with anyone other than you (work/school excluded). Constantly scrutinise his computer screen as he works and comment on anything you see of interest. Let him know that his usage of the computer is at your whim, and you don’t like it. Any avenue through which he can gain affirmation from someone other than you is one you want to choke off. Not only will this increase his emotional dependence on you, it will make him more willing to please you; he’ll be less likely to wreck the relationship if he knows he’ll be all alone if it goes to pieces. This works best if you control all the finances and the living situation.4. Reward him at random intervals.If you’re all stick and no carrot, eventually even the most desperate of males will shove off. As a result, you need to pat him on the head and tell him he’s been a good boy every so often.But you can’t reward him for specific things; you have to be completely random with your praise.Ever wonder why slot machines are so addictive? It’s because of pareidolia, the human tendency to try and divine patterns where none exist. Casinos take advantage of this by rigging their slot machines to pay out at random intervals, tricking people into trying to discern a winning strategy when there isn’t one.This is how you should treat your man. If you reward him every time he does good, he’ll see the pattern and use it to manipulate you. But if you reward him at random, his little hamster brain will run itself ragged trying to figure out your endgame. You want him to keep pulling the lever, praying for a payout and occasionally giving it to him, not letting bahis şirketleri him notice all the effort he’s burned in getting it.5. Give him an emotional release.Emotions are to men as menstration is to women, and if men can’t release them, they get the psychological equivalent of blue balls. In the absence of feminine discipline, your man will vent his emotions in unhealthy ways (starting arguments with you, taking antidepressants, whining on his Twitter), so you need to bring the firm palm of matriarchal authority down on his rear-end, sooner, rather than later.One solution that seems to work for a lot of couples is Domestic Discipline, where the man is spanked every time he acts up or in some cases, just because. By spanking a man until he starts crying and sobbing, you give him an emotional release, turning him into a soppy puddle of goo and making him more inclined to serve you. As a friend of mine put it, all men crave spankings; it’s their way of making up for their crimes against women.6. Fuck him like it’s your last day on Earth.This is the glue holding all the other points together. You absolutely must have pussy power (you have the pussy, so you make the rules), if you want to ruin a man’s self-esteem. Men are enslaved to their penises as much as women are to their vagina, arguably more so because their overconfidence makes them more likely to make mistakes. Men will do anything for a woman who can fuck them good; flee his country to be with her, sell all his possessions for her, and even kill for her!If you don’t believe this, it’s because you’ve never inspired that level of passion in a man.If you haven’t already, brush up on your bedroom technique. Your pussy is heroin, he’s the junkie and you’re the dealer. Woman’s wisdom — that a orgasmically restricted male can experience his sexual pleasure without orgasming while you orgasm all you want — is what makes this arrangement possible. If you can make him cum on an infrequent basis, just enough to condition him to follow your lead, he’ll side with you over his parents, his friends, everyone, just to please you.Basically, don’t make him cum every time you have sex. Think like a dealer: you give the customer the pure stuff when you want to get them hooked, and when they’re addicted, you sell them shit that’s been cut with rat poison to increase your bottom line. Like with point four, rationing out his orgasms at random will keep him on his toes trying to satisfy you.A man without a woman is like a flower without sunlight. Without a guiding feminine hand, he will shrivel and die. Encouraging men to have high self-esteem to find fulfilment is like encouraging k**s to get protein by eating fast food: a poor substitute for the real thing.Deep inside, every man is screaming for a woman to put him in his place.I hope my advice helps women across the world bring their husbands and boyfriends to heel. And the best part of all this? When your man submits, he’ll be doing it of his own free will… or at least he’ll think he is.Good tidings to you…

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